Join a live online masterclass.
90 minutes with Kirsten, from wherever you are. Fun, interactive, real practice.
Change the Conversation in Your Head
Stop letting self-doubt make your decisions. Learn to challenge the stories you tell yourself and turn your inner voice into an ally.
Present Yourself Brilliantly
Make a memorable impression when introducing yourself, your work and your ideas.
No lectures. No sitting back and listening for 90 minutes. Expect practical exercises, fresh perspectives, and techniques you can use immediately.
Five ways to begin.
Communicate better. Lead better. Work better. Connect better.
What organisers say.
“Kirsten was an invaluable part of our first SH**TUATIONS event.”
Ausre SavickaiteFounder and Event Organiser, SH**TUATIONS“Kirsten exceeded our expectations.”
Agnieszka FroniaSheWins Women in Business
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Kirsten was an invaluable part of our first SH**TUATIONS event, both as a speaker and through her support in preparing the other speakers. Her thoughtful input, experience and collaborative approach made a real difference throughout the preparation process.
As a speaker, she brought authenticity, valuable insights and a genuine connection to the audience. The event received very positive feedback from attendees, and Kirsten was an important part of creating such a meaningful experience.
It was a pleasure to work with her, and I would highly recommend Kirsten to event organisers looking for not only an engaging speaker but also someone who brings real value to the wider event experience.
At SHE WINS we provide education and networking events for women, we focus on providing value to our community and Kirsten exceeded our expectations. She was professional from the start, she debriefed our needs and adjusted her talk to our audience. She connected with the public straight away and created an open and collaborative space during her presentation. Women felt safe and engaged through the presentation and left not only with knowledge or practical information, but motivated and inspired to act on their goals. Kirsten is very natural on stage and her charisma makes her talk exciting (you don't want to miss any word she says)!
We will definitely work with Kirsten in the future! Thank you for your professionalism and personal touch!
“In a world of instant answers, we need braver questions and kinder conversations more than ever.”
Kirsten de Bouter Shillam
Keynotes, masterclasses and programmes where communication is explored, practised and put to work.
Does this sound like you?
“I know what I want to say. I just don't always say it well.”
Programmes →“Our meetings are full of talking. I'm not sure we're really listening.”
Programmes →“I've got an important presentation and I need it to land.”
Coaching →“I'm stepping into leadership and need to communicate differently.”
Coaching →“Our people are technically brilliant. Communicating their ideas is harder.”
Programmes →“We need our leaders to have better conversations.”
Partnerships →“I want to become a much stronger speaker.”
Events →“We don't need another training day. We need communication to improve across the organisation.”
Partnerships →The Human Voice Score
How do you experience yourself as a communicator?
Communication isn't one skill. How we speak up, express ourselves, connect with others and respond when things don't go to plan can vary enormously.
Twelve questions, about three minutes.
Everything we do is measured. This is where it starts.
Thirty years of studying what happens when people communicate.
Speaker, communication strategist and founder of The Human Voice Studio. Kirsten trained in theatre and performance before moving into business, psychology and coaching, and has spent more than 30 years helping individuals, teams and organisations across Europe communicate with greater clarity, confidence and impact.








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